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“[But] they’re not a great way to go deep or get to know the person’s personality.” Chris Donahue, a 28-year-old writer from Brooklyn, believes men should still foot the bill, at least on the first date.“It opens up a kind of flirty dialogue of like, ‘You can pay for the next date,’ ” he says.

She answered questions from real people like you—about finding love at any and every age. Q: What is the most important change in the dating world in the past 15 or 20 years?And once people started broaching politics, she says, other taboos, such as keeping past relationships to yourself, began to get ditched too.“Now we’ve given ourselves permission to talk about these things, so it’s becoming a lot more common for people to [even] talk about their exes,” she says.“If you think you know the rules, some new app will come along and reinvent the rule book.” Here’s how to play the game now.Apps such as Tinder have spoiled us for choice and made it OK to be dating multiple people at once.“If there’s not an immediate spark, you’re wasting both of your time,” says Manley.

The advice used to be to avoid talk of politics and former relationships on early dates, but now many favor putting it all out there from the beginning.

But such shenanigans are now considered passé, given how we’re all constantly looking at our smartphones.

“I don’t want to be with someone who’s going to play games and feel weird if I text them to say hello,” Donahue says.

One of the first times Foltz took the initiative and asked a guy out, it went really well. “It ended up being one of the most romantic experiences of my life.” She believes making the first move gave the man a helpful confidence boost.

“Sometimes guys are afraid, too.” And with the advent of dating apps such as Bumble, which require women to make the first move to avoid online harassment, it’s not only common for women to initiate a date, it’s increasingly expected.

“Someone can have a fantastic date, but when they get an email [from a dating service] with three other matches,” says Maria Avgitidis, dating coach and founder of Agape Match in Midtown, “fear of missing out takes effect.” But it’s important that everyone is up front about dating other people.