Dating kid someone
After all, if he was a deadbeat dad and could spend all of his extra time with me, I wouldn’t have been comfortable with that either. But how do you say that to a devoted parent without sounding like the Trick That Stole Christmas? I struggled with this feeling because I was sensitive to his responsibilities, but still didn’t feel he deserved a free pass from the “meet me halfway” zone.
My life consists of spontaneous weeknight outings, trips on the weekends and sleeping in — all things I would love to do with my boo. Nor should I apologize for expecting a certain level of engagement with the person I’m interested in. Their moods affect his mood, their finances affect his finances, their availability affects his availability.One of the first characteristics I discovered about Chris is that he’s a terrific, super involved, ever-present father.The secret is to believe in yourself and that you can make it happen.And most of all, have faith that love is stronger than any other feeling.I told him often that he was an awesome dad, a prime example, father of the year.
I expected nothing less of him than to be there for his children.
She later stated, “Me having a daughter isn’t a compromise and anyone I’m going to spend my life with is going to see it as the biggest bonus ever.” Okay, the word “compromise” isn’t the most warm and cozy thing to say in this context; a parent doesn’t want to hear anything less than glowing applause about his or her little dumpling, even if the pookie doo cusses them out on a regular basis.
I say “getting to know” because our brief tango didn’t get very far for a few reasons … I was wary from the beginning with “Chris.” Two baby mamas, and two boys and two girls.
That’s a lot of people to factor in when trying to learn about one person.
And I include the baby mamas because they are very much a part of the equation.
As much as I dig football, his suggestion wasn’t going to replace the need to spend time together — just us.