Dating married men advice
I'm 33, Megan is 37, and the majority of the guests who were not relatives of the bride or groom fell somewhere squarely in between.Recently recovering from a relationship with a 65-year-old celebrity plastic surgeon in Los Angeles, Megan arrived to the wedding weekend licking her wounds, only to immediately be courted by the 72-year old uncle of the groom. Uncle Jack was away somewhere in France, but the mother of the groom put the kibosh on the whole thing.
Megan's quick-witted retort is to rattle off the names of male celebrities who are sexagenarians, septuagenarians, and even octogenarians who you would probably sleep with: Harrison Ford, 71, Clint Eastwood, 83, Jack Nicholson, 76, Robert Redford, 77. "From an early age I just found older men to seem reliable and supportive. Bush (he was president at the time) was the most handsome man in the world.Dating men of any age presents its own unique set of challenges: In high school you get fumbling boys, confused about where to put their body parts in relation to yours, despite their over-eagerness for the proximity. If you manage to settle down with one in their thirties you'll still spend time tinkering with their training wheels, coaching them through their careers, mothering them, and turning them into the men they want to be.In their twenties men want to have as much sex with as many different women as possible. Of course in their forties and fifties all of that hard work will be undone in a blazing crisis of self that returns them squarely to stage one, armed this time with enough Viagra to pre-empt their premature excitement.He did all of this without any hints or prodding on my part.The bullshit factor dramatically declines as the years of their age rise.3. I can speak from experience; more often than not, you will get flowers when he comes to pick you up.He's spending more time and attention on your relationship.5. Most guys in their thirties think they're doing YOU a favor by holding your hand and saying that you look beautiful.
A man in his sixties will insist on holding your hand and tell you several times over how lucky he feels to be with you.
Lisa Copeland is a fabulous woman, with a passion for helping women to find quality men.
If you have you have ever noticed that older men are unlikely to make eye contact with your or have felt completely ignored at a dance or party, Lisa thinks she knows why.
Leaving love notes in your purse for you to find later is another common trait of a more mature man….because.4. They have already reached the heights of their careers so you won't be a work widow. This has led me to a lot of 30-something workaholics.
A smart and ambitious man in his sixties is not spending so much time at the office.
In our interview, I asked Lisa this question directly and she gave me a simple answer.