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He says this would be best, since my hooking up triggers him. But they were cuckold couples, GMHC, and the half who didn't "get to" hook up with others didn't want to hook up with others.The cuck half of a cuckold couple gets off on their partner "cheating" on them.
Check out the latest openings in broadcast & cable news for reports, journalists, news anchors, producers and behind-the-scenes production.But on the off chance it would crush your wife to be told everything, just tell her about Ms. After a few tense years, we started couples therapy.During therapy, my husband revealed that he was never in favor of the openness. On the other hand, I have been deceitful and manipulative for almost my entire adult life. Part of my motivation for writing is that I am particularly attached to the woman I'm having an affair with now, and both of us fantasize about being together openly. And these women didn't "turn into" one-year, three-year, seven-month, and four-months-and-counting affairs on their own. On the one hand, I do not regret my time with any of these women. We are also very socially and financially entangled. And if so, I need help considering an exit strategy. It doesn't "just keep happening," ASSHOLE, you keep doing it.Which means it's both ultimatum and bluff-calling time.
So long as your husband thinks he can dictate terms by pointing to his triggers and his trauma, GMHC, he has every incentive to continue being triggered and traumatized.
After trying some new arrangements—only together, only at sex parties, DADT—he realized he wasn't comfortable with any situation.
He told our therapist that every time I hooked up with someone, he was retraumatized because it reminded him of the time I broke up with him for six months 20 years ago.
Or maybe you're the wrong kind of sadist: the un-self-aware emotional sadist.
You say you love your wife, but you also say she'd be crushed—destroyed—if she discovered what you've been doing.
At best, you broke into (or slowed to) a trot, which allowed each one of these lady predators to overtake you. You weren't hit by a pussy meteor every time you left the house. Seeing as you're a reader, ASSHOLE, I suspect you knew an honest open relationship was an option—that ethical nonmonogamy was an option—but you didn't pursue that. Maybe because you don't want to be with a woman who is free to sit on other dicks.